As to the weaker vessel scripture, I also have heard it explained to mean that a woman is a precious treasure to be treated with care. That's a nice thought but somewhere in that explanation is always the underlying principle that women are fragile and not as strong as men. Then, when compared to the other ways women are spoken of in the Bible, you get the overwhelming impression that women are viewed as playing second fiddle to men.
I have always had an incredible respect and admiration for women. I don't see gender roles in set terms of stronger/weaker or first/second. I see two sets of unique traits and fascinating characteristics. Because of this, I've always disliked the male dominance in the WT Org. I really think that if women were allowed to do more in the congregations, the Org would be a better place. It bothers me to see strong women force themselves to be submissive to male leadership in the congregation. Often, in field service, I would be the only brother in a car group of sisters. I would ask their opinions on how we should approach a territory, when we should take a break, or what type of ministry we should try that day. So many times the sisters would repsond, "You're the brother. That's your decision. We'll do what you think is best." Although I appreciated the undeserved respect, I often said, "You have just as much say as I do. What would you like to do?" They would act shocked and slightly delighted. I would think, "How many times per day you have to supress your thoughts and feelings because a man is present?" This problem extends way beyond the WT Org and into modern culture.